40 Best Sex Gifts 2021

Spice things up in the bedroom with a fun and harmless game of kinky truth or dare. You’ll reach new levels of both emotional and physical intimacy.

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This is one way to get your freak on. It’s a Jenga-like sex game with wildly specific dares of sexual teasers and new moves. Even if you’re experienced in the world of adventurous sex, we guarantee there’s a move in this stack you have not tried.

This is exactly what it sounds like. It’s a DIY project that will keep your partner company when you’re not around, but mostly get one big LOL upon opening. It’s the perfect sex gift for long-distance relationships.

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OK, this might not look that sexy but trust us, it will make sex so much better—especially for her. For opposite-sex couples, it perfectly positions his insertion to hit the G-spot. She will thank you upon first orgasm.

This vibrator is a gift from the gods for any woman that needs clitoral stimulation to orgasm during penetrative sex. The wings simply tuck into the labia and what you get is effortless hands-free clit play, so you guys can finally O together.

This best-selling arousal oil from Foria is made with CBD and essential oils to not only ease discomfort during sex, but to stimulate deeper sensation and amplify orgasms.

The Crescendo might just be the most advanced vibrator on this entire list. It brings G-spot, clitoral, penis, and perineum stimulation in six different hidden motors that can be individually controlled. It is body adaptable and bendable to fit any anatomy. Plus, it comes with a PLAYbook app that comes with a guide of intimate positions and acts as a remote control for your vibrator. Isn’t technology great?

Curious about bondage but intimated by hardcore porn? If you don’t know where to start, this 5-piece kit is a great place. It comes with directions to help you and your partner (or partners) really get into it.

We’re guessing they call it The French Lover because the design mimics that of a French kiss. Either way, this tongue-shaped vibrator will stimulate all of the 8,000 nerve endings that live in her clitoris. It’s a sex gift for her like no other.

Turn lovemaking into a mysterious work of art for your home. This kit comes with nontoxic paint and a white canvas so you have an excuse to get down and dirty, while productively creating a lovely piece of DIY abstract decor.

It’s a little bit sexy and a little bit sweet—who are we kidding, it’s mostly sexy. The floral appliqué around the nipples and high-waisted thong bottom will make her feel feminine and fancy to let her freakiest self fly.

She’s going to need a pouch to store all of the sex gifts you’re giving her. Start with this cute little pouch.

You both won’t know what hit you with the Lelo 2. This vibrating cock ring fits any penis size and brings pleasure to both partners simultaneously. It’s sleek in design in high tech in function.

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So, she’s always wanted to channel that 50 Shades of Gray moment, but hardcore BDSM can be quite intimidating. Get her this tasteful and stylish body chain that just so happens to clamp on her nipples down to her clit. It’s the sex gift she never knew she needed.

The whip cream thing is so 2004. Kick it up on notch with decadent dark chocolate body paint you can later lick off each other.

This see-through lacy number is beyond sexy, and the blue is a fun departure from classic black or red.

Even if she’s not a fancy lingerie-wearer, she will love this set of lace thongs from Hanky Panky. They are the most comfortable pairs she will own—and look damn sexy on.

You might not believe a shiny magic potion exists to boost your sex drive. This rich and chocolaty adaptogenic blend tastes great in hot chocolate and even better as a cocktail (to loosen things up even more). It includes maca and cacao, two known adaptogens that help with libido and endorphins for more pleasure.

There is something so utterly sexy about a sporty set of casual underwear. You can even be a matching couple in this iconic set of Calvins, perfect for making a Sunday late morning breakfast with sexy breaks in between.

Yes, this clit-suctioning vibrator hits the G-spot, too. It will feel like you are going down on her and penetrating her at the same time.

Show her who’s boss in bed. Spoiler alert: it’s her with the “I Cum First” vibrator. It’s a cute and kitchy way to introduce toys into sex.

This award-winning sexy toy brand enhances any sexy moment with a little added stimulation. Lora DiCarlo makes a vibrator for every type of pleasure. This one mimics the human finger, pulsating on the clitoris. You can even take a quiz to find out what vibrator works best for her, or speak to a wellness coach (for free) to figure out the best way to bring these babies into the bedroom. Get ready for a sexual awakening.

A candle that brings a flickering light and heats up a sexy massage oil? If you haven’t tried this move yet, you are missing out. And don’t worry, it’s made from all-natural moisturizing materials, so it’s not just body-safe, but also nourishing for your skin and hers.

So you’ve talked about role playing in bed before but have you actually done it? A sexy colorful wig is a fun place to start.

When a date night at home cooking up a deliciously sexual meal sounds like the most fantastic foreplay, whip out this book.

Lelo’s take on Ben Wa balls are the perfect addition for foreplay. While they are used to strengthen the pelvic floor muscle, they also enhance sexual pleasure. Slip these in with a little lube and proceed with all types of foreplay. Her clitoral O will likely be more powerful than ever before.

We get it, sometimes your fingers get tired. This finger attachment vibrator is here to save the day (and her orgasm). It’s made for foreplay, partner, and solo use for her to play (when you’re not around.)

Pop it in and go to town. (Just be a little more careful than that.) If you and your partner are into butt stuff, this weighted vibrating plug is a must-have.