The 24 Best Bondage Toys for Kinky BDSM Sex

You can imagine our surprise when we learned these gag lips are marketed as “anti-wrinkling muscle tighteners.” Sorry, but no. They are for giving blowjobs and only for giving blowjobs—specifically, where the wearer’s mouth is forced to stay open.

If you want to step into the world of bondage rope, this affordable kit is a great place to start. It comes with (1) 30′ piece of rope, (2) 15′ pieces of rope, EMT safety sheers (left-handed shears available, too), and a two-disc Getting Started DVD set.

Want to get kinky on the quick? Babeland Bondage Tape is a binding miracle. It sticks to itself, but not to skin. Imagine the possibilities: mummy play, skin-tight fetish outfits, light-proof blindfolds—all with no pain (unless, of course, you want some).

If you want to play with restraints, these silky sashes are a luxurious tether for wrapping wrists, ankles, gagging, or use as a blindfold.

Transform any bed into a BDSM playground with this simple restraint set. Pop it under a mattress, adjust the straps, and keep your partner’s wrists and ankles exactly where you want them to be.

Slip a blindfold over your eyes, and feel your senses heighten as your partner teases and takes control of your pleasure. Then, take submission one step further by adding wrist restraints to the sexy mix.

Put this collar on your special submissive someone and show off your dominance. Fur lining makes it comfy enough for extended wear; a decorative ring makes it easy to leash your partner for bondage play.

Possess your partner like a prized pet with this bondage collar, then snap the gender-neutral clamps on their nipples for the ultimate combination of pleasure and pain.

These aren’t just nipple clamps—they connect to the clitoris, as well. With these, the euphoric pain rushes through your partner’s body.

This adjustable, leather-like harness fits a range of female-presenting bodies. It has a choker and chrome hardware and will look fantastic worn alone or beneath your clothing for a more subtle effect.

For those who are only allowed to orgasm when their master says they can.

Lift your legs or tilt your hips for easy G-spot access with the Enchanted Spreader Bar. This strong, rigid bar has velvety cuffs that make it easy to spread and secure ankles and wrists.

While on the cheaper side for a sex swing, this one still is highly rated on Lovehoney. It’s great for couples who don’t have a ton of space in their home.

This bondage kit is ideal for couples who are interested in BDSM and pegging. (Make sure to read our tips on how to bottom before getting pegged!)

If you want a simple-to-use restraint that won’t break, snag clothes, or irritate the skin, these silicone wrist cuffs are flexible for comfort yet plenty strong enough to restrain.

A great kit that has everything a BDSM newbie could want: cuffs, restraints, a blindfold, ball gag, and more.

These hunter green bondage beauties look elegant AF, but they also do an excellent job of keeping wrists where they belong. And if your submissive likes to struggle and escape, there’s a lockable buckle.