20 Long Distance Relationship Sex Toys

The Vector is an app-controlled prostate massager that stimulates the prostate internally and externally through the perineum. From Zachary Zane’s review of the Vector for Men’s Health: “It felt amazing, better than other prostate massagers because of the external perineum vibrations. Without applying pressure to your perineum, the Vector would have been fine, just like every other good prostate massager. But having both the internal and external pressure together compounded to create an intense full-body orgasm that you can’t get with just your run-of-the-mill vibrating butt plug. You need both to really shake things up.”

What do buyers say? “A wonderful toy. Incredible quality and feels amazing in your hands and inside. Can even be used on a female too,” says one lovehoney.com reviewer.

Cock rings can help you maintain longer, stronger erections by trapping blood in the shaft of your penis. This one from Satisfyer vibrates, too, and the Satisfyer app lets your partner control it from anywhere in the world. You can also connect the app to Spotify or Apple Music and have the vibrations sync with the beat of any song.

What do buyers say? “It is extremely powerful and can be dialed in just where you like it. Also you will notice that because of the way it’s shaped it’s very optimal when you have a partner,” says one amazon.com reviewer.

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The problem with some rabbit vibrators is alignment; depending on the user’s anatomy, the internal and external arms may not line up to hit your sweet spots at the same time. That’s why we’re huge fans of the Nova 2, which has two adjustable arms so you can customize its shape to your heart’s content—plus, some super-powerful vibrations and app-controlled capabilities.

What do buyers say? “This is a game changer for me,” says one lovehoney.com reviewer. “I’m smaller than average, and have had a hard time finding a rabbit-style vibrator that fits my anatomy. This actually pulls it off. The weight and texture feel luxurious.“

If one of you has a penis and the other has a vulva, this is the date night kit for you. You get the We-Vibe Nova and the We-Vibe Pivot—a vibrating cock ring—in one nifty package.

What do buyers say? “When it came to the buzz I think I levitated at one point, and my vision blurred,” says one lovehoney.com reviewer. “I am Sure there was a light in the corner of my room that had to be God … because I have never felt like that before.”

Get ready for power play…in more ways than one. This vibe is app-controlled, so one partner can control the other’s toy. It’s also a wand massager: a type of vibrator known for packing tons of power in that rounded head.

Your long-distance partner may not have access to your actual penis, but they can have a replica. This DIY kit, available in various colors, lets you make a vibrating dildo in the exact shape of your peen. It’s a great unique gift idea!

What do buyers say? ” The finished product was an amazing replica,” says one lovehoney.com reviewer. “Would be tempted to buy again just to make difference colors!”

It isn’t always easy to schedule partnered sex sessions in a long-distance relationship, especially if you’re in different time zones. Thank heavens for masturbation! These squishy “eggs” fit over your penis to switch up the sensations when you jerk off.

What do buyers say? “I use these on my husband and they are awesome,” says one amazon.com reviewer. “If you take care of them, you can get multiple uses from these.”

“The newest air-suction toy on the market, the Satisfyer Love Triangle, is a delight as it combines the air-suction technology with deep vibrations,” says Taylor Sparks, an erotic educator and founder of Organic Loven, “Better still, it can be controlled via the Satisfyer app.” That mobile app is what truly sets this one apart. You (or your partner) can remotely dial up or dial back every feature with a few button taps.

What do buyers say? “Wow. This is just The Best! Used plenty of lube. Switched on and find your spot … The most amazing toy I’ve ever used,” said one LoveHoney.com reviewer.

If you’re looking to take your “old-school” vibrator to the next level, maybe it’s time to consider something more … rideable. “When it comes to rideable vibrators, the cowgirl sex machine is one of the most luxurious,” Play says. “It’s great for erotic social events too because you don’t have to take off your pants to enjoy the ride.” The saddle-shaped design makes this one comfortable for riders of all shapes and sizes.

The cowgirl sex machine is designed for perfect G-spot stimulation. It’s extremely powerful and you can control the intensity of the vibrations along with the swivel patterns by using the corded remote or even through the companion app. All this premium fun comes at a price though—around $1,500 to be exact. But for one of the best pieces of rideable sex furniture, we challenge you to find anything more fun.

What do buyers say? “Your lady will love this. I invited my lady friend over to view the new toy and she hit the mark 3 times in less than 10 minutes,” said one Amazon reviewer.

Thanks to a partnership between Lovense and Camsoda, you can pair this vibrating cock ring with a webcam performer’s vibrator. “It was fucking awesome,” says our reviewer. “I won’t go so far as to say I felt like I was in the room with her, but I definitely felt more connected to her than I would to one of my OnlyFans follows. The interactive aspect definitely enhanced my masturbatory experience and made it seem like less of a solo activity. Not to mention I was really damn turned on. I’m always looking for sex toys that excite me, but that’s not what I got with the Diamo—I got a sexual experience that excited me. And that was even better.”

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One of the best oral sex sleeves comes from Lelo, and while it’s on the pricier side, you get what you pay for by way of technology, durability, and sheer pleasure. Instead of having to move your own hand (like if you were masturbating the old-fashioned way), the app-enabled device actually does the work for you via four different, customizable programs that do what mouths could only dream of.

What do buyers say? “This is phenomenal,” says one lelo.com reviewer. “The ability to set up to 4 preset modes is fantastic. The sensor tech in it allows you to ease into it, and only engages the second motor when you’re in far enough for it to stimulate right under the head. You really don’t have to do much after you’re in.”

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