Good sex isn’t all about thrusting, and that’s just as true for anal play as it is for P-in-V penetration. In the wonderful world of booty toys, you’ll find dildos, anal beads, and other products geared toward in-and-out movement, but don’t underestimate the pleasure of a toy that goes in your butt and stays put. We’re talking about butt plugs.
What are butt plugs, and why do they feel good?
Butt plugs come in a range of sizes, and some have special functions like vibrating or heating up, but the defining trait of a butt plug is that you pop it in your rear end and leave it there for a feel-good “full” sensation. “There are tons of nerve endings in the anal canal,” Alicia Sinclair, certified sex educator and founder and CEO of b-Vibe, says in Men’s Health Best. Sex. Ever. “At the entry of the bum, there’s also the anal sphincter, which has 4,000 nerve endings, which is the same number of nerve endings as the head of the penis and about half as many as the clitoris.”
In addition to stimulating those nerve endings, butt plugs can also help cisgender guys access the prostate, a walnut-shaped gland capable of producing next-level, full-body orgasms. Also known as the “P-spot,” the prostate is located below the bladder and in front of the rectum; you can stimulate it externally through the perineum, or internally through your booty.
Another reason to love butt plugs: They’re great for anal play beginners to prep their booty for bigger things, such as being on the receiving end of anal sex. If you’ve never been penetrated by a penis or dildo before, a smaller butt plug can help you get used to the new sensations of stretching and fullness back there. (The process of prepping your rear end for butt play is known as “anal training,” FYI. You can buy anal training kits designed to help you increase your capacity.)
But remember, using a butt plug can feel good regardless of your identity. Don’t let false ideas about masculinity and butt stuff inhibit your sexual pleasure! “Guys have to remember this: The sensations and experiences that feel good have nothing to do with your sexual orientation or gender,” Sinclair says. “There’s nothing inherently feminine about receiving anal stimulation and penetration. You get to decide what anal play means to you and how you feel about it. And when you can let go of the idea that a sexual act has to be done by a specific gender, you’ll discover some amazing opportunities.”
How do I use a butt plug?
Because these toys are designed to stay in one place, they’re also among the easiest sex toys you can play with. You can use a butt plug in so many different sexual scenarios, from masturbation to popping one in during partner sex. Hell, you could even wear one out to dinner for a kinky twist on your classic date night. (If it’s a vibrating butt plug, try handing the remote control to your partner ????.)
The first thing to know? Take things slow. Inserting objects into your butt takes practice. Start with one of the smaller plugs on this list, and work your way up from there.
Whether you’re inserting the plug solo or having a partner do it for you, start by applying a healthy dose of lube to your anus. The lube mandate goes for any kind of sex, but especially butt stuff, since the anus doesn’t self-lubricate. Check out our favorite lubes for anal sex if need to re-stock.
Warm up your booty with a lubed-up finger first. When you’re used to that sensation, apply more lube—always more lube!—to the head of the butt plug. Your or a partner can gently ease it into your rear end. Pause or take it out if it feels uncomfortable, or keep going until the plug is all the way in, held firmly in place by the flared base. (Never put a toy up your butt if it doesn’t have a flared base; otherwise, it could get lost up there.)
Best Butt Plugs for Men
- Best for Aspiring Anal Pros: b-Vibe Anal Training & Education Set
- Best Budget-Friendly Anal Training Kit: Butt Plug Trainer Kit
- Best for Going Really Slow: They-ology Wearable Anal Training Set
- Best Beginner Butt Plug: Snug Plug 1
- Best Intermediate Butt Plug: Snug Plug 3
- Best Vibrating Butt Plug: Vibrating Snug Plug
- Best Expert Butt Plug: Snug Plug 6 XL
- Best Intermediate Stainless Steel Butt Plug: Pure Plug Small
- Best Expert Stainless Steel Butt Plug: Pure Plug Large
- Best App-Controlled Butt Plug: Ditto App and Remote Controlled Vibrating Butt Plug
- Best Rimming Butt Plug: Vibrating Rimming Butt Plug
- Best Budget-Friendly Vibrating Butt Plug: Butt Tingler
- Best Uniquely-Shaped Butt Plug: Spiral Butt Plug
- Best Inflatable Butt Plug: Inflatable Butt Plug
- Best Butt Plug With a Cock Ring: Snug & Tug
- Best Glass Butt Plug: Rain Glass Butt Plug
- Most Aesthetically Pleasing Butt Plug: Super Soft Silicone Galaxy Butt Plug
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